Sunday, June 19, 2011

Our sixth anniversary and Father's Day

The idea of marriage was always so foreign to me.  My parents were divorced when I was a little girl, and everyone I knew who had been married was either divorced or seemed miserable.  It was scary to me, and didn't know if it really worked.  I never dreamed of my wedding or imagined the dress I would wear.  I was so scared of the thought of that kind of commitment that when my mom mentioned that she thought Brad and I would get married if we continued to date until I graduated from college, I pretty much freaked out.  And I broke up with Brad.  When I couldn't even go 24 hours without talking to him, I knew I wouldn't be able to live without him.  And when he still said that he loved me, and he would wait, I knew that he would be there for me no matter what.  I was used to being told one thing, only to be disappointed, but Brad was different.  When he said something, he meant it.

After I graduated from Pensacola Christian College in May 2004, his family took me to Disney Worldfor the first time in my life.  Talk about a dream come true.  On a ferry boat with the Magic Kingdom in the background, Brad asked me if I would marry him.  We had mentioned it here and there, but I was completely shocked.  I could hardly even say my "Yes", but I did.



This was the first dress that I tried on, and I thought it was too much at first.  I thought I wanted something plain and simple, but after trying on a few others, I knew this was it. 


Here's my family.  We hadn't all been in a picture together since I was probably 6 or 7 years old.


My brothers................

Our wedding party, which included our brothers, my college room mates, and my best friend, who was the reason that Brad and I met.





I also had the advantage of seeing how wonderful of a father Brad was before we ever had children, because I saw how he was with Justus.  He has always been a great dad and still is.


So the day after our anniversary and on Father's Day, I love you honey.  I know I've told you so many times, but you are my best friend and my soul mate.  I thank God for bringing us together.

Just a little side note:  Happy Father's Day to my mom.  Mom, you know that you were everything.  You were my mom, dad, best friend, biggest cheer leader.  You are the first one that I think of when I think of this day.  I love you.

1 comment:

  1. That's really lovely... YAY for your mom!
    ps. Your eyebrows are gorgeous - the kind I always wanted for my own...

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